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2cm 50%effaced station 3 contractions every 2 to 5 minutes....Man this is the worst pain every for the slowest labor process...cant get pain meds until 4cm doctors are confused saying i should be 6cm by now but my baby wanst to be stubborn.....Any sugguestions on how to dilate faster? non traditional items to wear for the maid of the brides